I started my day with a lovely cup of Yorkshire tea, sandwiched between my two boys (the best part of lazy mornings) and everything in the world seemed right; a total sense of completeness.
So when I spent a gorgeous afternoon yesterday celebrating with friends at a baby shower – I couldn’t help but wonder why I spent so much of the day thinking about the pros and cons of adding a third child to our already beautiful family?
I mean – we were all there celebrating a few hours of freedom, to drink tea, eat cake, drink more (not tea) and chat uninterrupted – escaping parenting for a few hours, so I ask myself at the end of the day, why on earth am I floundering between my already perfect little family…where there is a little bit of freedom on the horizon and doing it all again!
Having three children looks bloody hard! I mean when you do get talking about adding to the brood, people tend to talk mostly about the logistical issues - about holiday issues, needing bigger cars, needing a bigger...